Posts Tagged ‘Weekend’

The Gremlin in the Car…

Monday, April 5th, 2010

This last weekend was pretty good.  It was also pretty busy.  Lots of driving, lots of visiting with old friends, lots of doing this’s and that’s… 

So here’s the story of the one thing that didn’t go as planed…  As frustrating as it was, I’m sure one day we’ll laugh about it, I’m just not sure when…

I had contacted a few of my cousins who hadn’t ever had a chance to see conference in person and was planning on taking them to the Sunday morning session.  The night before I checked the tickets and parking pass where all there and accounted for.  I was excited to go!

The next morning we all get up and take off in the car on the way down leaving around 7:45, we were all excited.  Off we go!  We are heading south on I-15, and get to the 215 interchange just to see with no warning that the police had closed I-15 southbound, just a quarter mile short of our exit (if that).  Random, and frustrating.

Never mind that, undaunted we continue, and take 215, we’ll simply cut across on I-80 and get there in plenty of time.  What to our surprise, but again the police are there, no warning, and have closed 215, again, just a quarter mile shy of our exit.  The only place to go?  To the airport (which is the wrong direction) as its the only exit open now.

Well, we loop through the airport and take the North Temple exit, as that’s the road we wanted anyways.  So off we go!  It’s now almost 8:30, we are already running behind, but we can make it up!

Off we go!  Hardly any traffic at all, we’ll be there in a jiffy!  Then we get to highway 89, and instant gridlock!  All traffic comes to a screeching halt!  The detour had eaten all our time we had planned on using to beat the rest of the traffic.  Undaunted we carry on, we’ve made it this far, we can make it the rest of the way!

After sitting in traffic for 20 minutes (it’s now almost 9 o’clock), we diced to send a runner to reserve our seats while we park.  By this time we were only 1 1/2 blocks from our parking.  I pull out a ticket, and send the runner off, I also pull out our parking pass in anticipation of pulling in.

Another 20 minutes, and we haven’t moved any closer to the parking.  So I decide to hand out the tickets for the rest of the passengers so they can at least get in while I park.  I open up the envelope, and to my surprise, only one ticket is left in the envelope!  Gremlins 1, Me 0.

I call my cousin to check he didn’t accidently get more then one ticket.  Nope, he only had one.  So we start searching the car (since traffic isn’t moving we had plenty of time to search).  After we turn up empty, I decide I’ll park and maybe we can get in on standby.  I reach for the parking pass (that I had put in the console during the search) and guess what?  Gremlins 2, Me 0.  It was gone.  Again, another search ensued, and no pass was ever found.

By this time, it was 9:20, Music and the Spoken word was about to start, the standby seats are being seated (well, had been for the last 20 minutes) and we had only moved 10 ft from the time we sent the runner to reserve seats.  Not wanting to miss any conference, we conceded defeat, handed out the tickets we had left and headed for home.

Thus goes the story of the Gremlins and the only black spot on an otherwise good trip.  BTW, one would think we would of found the tickets when we got home and could look around, and nope, they where all gone and missing, even the parking pass…  The Gremlins did a thorough job…

All the Disjointed Becoming One…

Monday, November 9th, 2009

First off, let me apologize for the length of this post.  It’s a complex thought that’s taken a long time to form.  As such, I’m probably leaving out a good chunk of it.  I hope you enjoy the read, and while you may or may not agree with my point of view, I hope it will help you be better informed so we can all make better choices, me included.  It’s all summed up pretty well in the last paragraph, but that probably makes more sense if you read it all.  Sorry for the rambling…

So I have been a little under the weather since last Wednesday.  So my plans for the weekend?  Eat, sleep, and when I can’t sleep, be lazy.  That equates to watching TV.  National pastime right?  I know.  So what did I watch?  Normally I’d say it’s not important, but it all feeds into the thought I want to share later on.  Now, I must also say, I was disheartened to hear that the House had passed a “Healthcare Reform” bill.  I’ll explain why I was disheartened later in the post.  In summary though: It doesn’t reform healthcare, but insurance, and doesn’t address the underlying issues, and is thus doomed for failure (again, I’ll address it later on).

The first show was from the History channel.  It was focused on the Berlin Wall and it’s history.  It shared how the wall was built, how it evolved, and chronicled different stories on how people would sneak across to their freedom.  It then detailed how the regime crumbled and how the people came flooding through.  The joy on their faces was undeniable.  While I remember that day, I think I was a little too young to understand the importance of it.  One of the statements of a man who made it across before the wall fell really stuck out.  To paraphrase: 

“Those who have freedom don’t know what it means.  You can’t know what it means until you don’t have it.  There is nothing more important then one’s freedom.”

Ok, so that really butchers his statement, but gets the point across.

Next was an episode of Home Makeover.  Cheesy I know.  But it’s amazing to see how people’s lives can change so drastically when a few people come together to serve their fellow man.  It gives one hope in humanity.

Finally was a documentary following the rise, the deception, and the greed that was Enron and it’s fall.  It talked about how the company was ran, what it did, how it made it’s money, how it killed itself, and some of the fallout from the whole debacle.  Really quite sad.  Again, a general feeling came from watching it.  It was amazing what people are willing to do in order to serve their own short term self interest.  Rather then act ethically and set a long term sustainable organization in place that could carry them for the long run, they built a short term sinking ship because it could line their pockets faster.  It didn’t matter to them who they hurt or how they did it, as long as they got what they wanted.  It was a sad and depressing show.  One of the tenants that they focused on was how they continued a dog and pony show to keep the wool pulled over everyone’s eyes so they could run their scheme.  Even worse, its something they couldn’t have done on their own.  Instead it took other companies and people helping them.  Everything from auditors, banks, government officials, lawmakers, and much more for it all to shake out the way it did.  Why’d they go along?  Again, for their own short term benefit.  No wonder cooperate America has a black eye.

Now, I want to talk about the healthcare bill.  While I agree the industry could use a overhaul, I don’t think the current methodology is the correct methodology.  Let me first discuss the bill and issues with it, then I’ll tie it all together…

What’s the main argument for the reform?  The healthcare industry is broken, charges too much, and as such roughly one third of American’s can’t afford healthcare.  I have to assume the question was then asked, why can’t more American’s afford healthcare?  Well, the answer was simple, they can’t afford insurance, so we’ll make that more affordable.  It appears that no one asked the correct question of “why can’t more Americans afford insurance?”  After asking such a question, I’m sure there would still be some reform for the insurance industry, but the majority of the reform would have been focused on such things as:

  • Getting more people into the medical field to increase the number of doctors and nurses.
  • Address the high cost of medicine.
  • Address the high cost of medical equipment.
  • Address issues with medical malpractice.

I’m sure there’s more, but that’s just scratching the surface.  As is, I’m already watching insurance costs go up without the reform, I can only imagine how much it will go up with the bill in it’s current state…  Besides, a lot of people say, insurance is paying it, so I’m not.  So I simply have to ask, where’s the insurance company (or government) get the money to pay for it?  That’s right, from you’re pocket.

My next issue is simply on the handling and spin surrounding the bill.  It doesn’t matter if you are in favor of reform or not, but it seems as if those who don’t agree with certain measures such as the public option where automatically labeled as being against America and the poor who can’t afford healthcare.  I find that sentiment to be appalling and insulting.  What happened to having a healthy debate?

Speaking of debate…  So since when is it a healthy debate when a bill stalls for months with little or no movement, then all of a sudden a few days of push gets it through.  It simply shows a lack of knowledge or of caring of all the finer points of the issues.  If an issue is big enough to be worth spending $1 Trillion+ on, then it’s worth more then a few months of trite banter and then a week of pushing it through because you wont have the votes next year.  heck, if it’s worth that much, maybe it should take a couple of years of experts working on it to get it right, or at least break it down into smaller more digestible chunks.  If it was a good bill, wouldn’t there be people from all parties supporting it instead of an almost strictly party line vote?  (more on that question later)  How much analysis has been done to see what it would and would not affect.  What are the side effects?  Both positive and negative.  Even being truthful about the downsides to the reform would give one more confidence.  It can’t be all roses.

A simple one:  How in the world are we going to pay for it?

One more issue.  Minor as it may be.  Next time, call it what it is.  It’s not a healthcare reform bill, but a insurance reform bill.  Don’t be insulting and try the switch and bait.  I’d imagine the more people realize what it is addressing (once they get past the name) would have issue with it as well…  Maybe that’s where the name came from.

Ok, so what does this all mean?  What do a few random shows and a House bill have in common?  Why should we care?  Why not turn it all off and just watch some good ol’ football (like I am now while I write this…).

I think it has to do with the perception and the treatment of the citizens of the US and how they are being treated.  Not just by the government, but by corporate America as well.  While there are many who are just trying to do what is right, to lift up their fellow man, there are many who are acting more on their own short term interests.  They are willing to sell their morals in order to gain what they see to be fame and power.  They have forgotten what Freedom means.  They have forgotten how important it is to protect.  As such, they are willing to make decisions that will impact our freedom from here on out, whether it is our financial, political, or any other freedom.  Rather then focus on what is right, what will add and make the country better, they focus on the quick vote, the quick buck, and the sound bite that comes with it.  Much like Enron, they are willing to sell the lie, and do it well enough that everyone will believe it, no matter what the cost.  This I believe, is a direct attack on the threads that we must protect to keep this country great.

3 Days and 2 Nights…

Sunday, May 31st, 2009

So, I just thought it would be worthwhile for me to recount the happenings of the last 3 days and 2 nights…  I’m not going to go into much of the behind the scenes details (even though that’s where I was most of the time) but focus on the important stuff….  As many of you may or may not know, we had our first bi-annual 11 stake YSA conference:  the Conference of the Ozarks.  It all started several months ago with a dream and a vision, and culminated in a great event that all who participated enjoyed.

Friday night was the official start of the event.  All the sisters went to the Springdale High School Performing Arts Center to listen to Sister Dew speak.  The guys all met at the Springdale Stake Center to listen to Brother Bills give an excellent lesson.  After a good spiritual start to set the tone, the party began.  A huge dance was held in the cultural hall.  Hundreds of participants signed in and joined the fun.  The first night alone over 430 people signed in!  (I hear many more showed and forgot to sign in, so the number is probably much higher…)  As the night came to a close, everyone found rides and went to a host home for a well deserved and needed rest for the next day…

The next morning started with one of the most exciting events in the whole conference.  We had Sheri Dew come and speak to everyone, and share her testimony of Christ.  Here are some of her key points:

  • We need to remember that we are sons and daughters of God.
  • Christ atoned for each of us.
  • We can know Him personally.

It was also really neat to hear her speak about her interactions with the leadership of the Church.  Sorry for those who missed out.

Afterwards we split in to groups to go to workshops on a multitude of subjects from music, to providing for one’s future and missionary work.  There where 8 in total to choose from, and the participants got to go to 2 of them.  Hopefully they took good notes to share with their friends!

After all the workshops, it was time for a break, and that’s just what they got!  We had a few hours of free time to go do what you wanted.  They had the full facilities of the HPER, including rock climbing, swimming, racquet ball, basketball, table tennis, campus tours, ultimate Frisbee, and much much more.  Good thing it was perfect weather, a nice sunny 80 degrees…  Free time ended with a nice dinner with all the fix’ns.  Chicken, roast beef, potatoes, veggies, killer cake and much more.

We where then blest to hear from the Tulsa Oklahoma Mission President and his wife.  Again, it was a huge spiritual feast and they had a great message.  One of the key points they highlighted was that of strict obedience, and how the Lord is bound to what He says and must bless us accordingly.

Immediately after they where done speaking, again, time to party some more, so another great dance started…  There was plenty of fun to be had by all until they all headed once again to their host homes…  BTW, it was estimated that there where about 600 people there throughout the day….

Finally Sunday came around.  The whole event culminated with everyone attending church.  There was an awesome spirit there, even before church began.  It was a treat to have all 3 hours presented by the Springdale and Rogers stake presidencies.  There where testimonies given, great principals taught (who knew a wallet was such a great metaphor for life?) and a spiritual feast to be had by all.  At the end of the three hour block, it was time for everyone to grab a quick sack lunch and say goodbye to their newly formed friends.  Who knows how many new facebook “friends” where made, but I’m fairly certain there was more then a few…

All in all, a good time was had by all, hearts where touched, and I think the conference was a great success.  The theme was “Becoming our best selves” from Pres. Monson, and I think the tools to do so where defiantly shared.  The only thing that could of made it better, would to have had more people come and partake of the blessings to be had from attending…  Maybe next time…